Dating adverts psychology

Men do not show a linear increase in maximum age preference that matches the rule’s predictions.

Instead, men report maximum acceptable partner ages that hover around their own age through their 40s.

Even when fantasizing, such women’s minimum age preference remains over 30.

But fantasies, of course, are not generally subject to public scrutiny and the rule is only designed to calculate what is socially acceptable —so this discrepancy is not necessarily a failure of the rule.

The rule underestimates women’s reported preferences in their 20s, but the gap between reports of what is socially acceptable and the rule itself widen over time. Let’s take a look at Demi Moore, who at times has been criticized for dating men who differ substantially from her own age.

As you can see from the graph, one partner exceeded the rule’s calculated acceptable maximum age, while Ashton Kutcher’s age fell short of the socially-acceptable minimum age when they first started dating in 2003.

In other words, while the rule states that 40-year-old women can feel comfortable dating 27-year-old men, this does not reflect the social preferences and standards of women.

Women in their 40s think that approximately 35 or older is acceptable for marriage or a relationship.

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