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Read along and prepare to say "same."There was this guy with whom I 100% acted like we were dating, but he kept making sure I knew for a fact we weren't dating.I couldn't be like "do you want to grab some coffee?The next day I realised I hadn't actually asked him if he wanted to, you know, date. Kept dating cause I thought I could power through and quell the feels.So I fired off a quick message which I think read something like "hey sidebar are we dating now because that would be super cool if we did ok thanks" and somehow that worked. My last gf, We were both doing our thing and I caught feels. Became too much and I basically kept seeing her, minus the romantic stuff. I'd barely gotten inside before his mom and sister was all over me, wanting to meet his new girlfriend that he had been talking so much about. And that is how we started dating, but that's okay, 'cause I really like him. I met her at uni, she was nice and friendly and we went to the movies a lot, had dinner, went clubbing...A friend I had been casually booking up with off and on bought me a lap dance for my birthday.
Apparently we were in a relationship for several weeks at that point. He was very upfront about how he didn't want anything serious.When a girl tells you she just wants to be friends, there's some fatal relationship/attraction landmine you stepped on and she wants no part of you but wants an emergency exit established.When someone is "just looking for friends" they're establishing right off the bat 'whatever happens happens but I have the right to go 'hehe you're a mistake."Agree/disagree?That was fine with me and I continued to date other guys.He became unbelievably jealous but whenever I would ask him if he wanted to be exclusive he was adamant he didn't feel that way about me.