Fat chick dating
Personally I dont find obese girls to be attractive, as I am skinny myself. Although I did reply to you, I wasn't impressed on how you titled the Forum. But I will let you know why, in my thought process.
Have you ever eaten a tangerine so sweet that it was the be-all, end-all of tangerines? I have plenty of overweight friends, that's no issue, love them with all my heart. (there are differant levels of "fat chick" as you put it) There is OBESE, Overweight, few extra pounds, average, etc... If she doesn't take care of herself, then she is not going to be happy with herself and therefore not able to be happy with anyone else, you have to love yourself before you can love anyone else.
Transit -- from buses and taxis all the way to airplanes -- can lead to downright hostile environments.
And yes, I even enjoy going out for a good meal if you can manage not to make a big deal out of it.
If I try to talk to you about fatphobia, about discrimination, about the challenges I face as a fat woman in the world, please don't try to comfort me by telling me people don't mean it, that maybe I'm misreading the situation, the the world isn't out to get me.
Whether or not fat hatred is malicious, it's still harmful.
Check your own issues with fatness before telling me to check mine.
I don't know what the motivation is for guys who try to get me on their shoulders at concerts or attempt to lift me gently into bed.