Practical dating tips
We both agreed that she learned based on her own experience that if you are unhappy about your partner’s intellectual capacity and you find yourself bored in their company, it’s not going to change and it is probably going to become more and more annoying with time.
This particularly applies to the more feminine and traditional women who want to look up to the guy they are with, and who want to be in a position where they respect their partner for being at least equal, but preferable superior to them in their intelligence and mental abilities.
Refer to "Biblical Dating: Growing in Intimacy" for more details on this. First, don't spend significant time talking about what your sex life will be like once you're married.
As we've discussed before, do talk clearly about boundaries in your physical relationship, and do put clear methods in place to help you adhere to them, but don't spend time fantasizing about your future sexual relationship.
Will you be able to accomplish ministry (be it your original plan or one that you have caught a vision for through this person) more effectively together than apart? Look at the roles laid out there for men and women.
Do you desire to fill your role with the person in question specifically in mind?
She told me then that she was hoping it won’t be that big of a deal and eventually other things and that guy’s other great qualities would make up for his deficit in the intellect department.
After the proposal is seamlessly executed and delivered by the man with no snags whatsoever, the woman says yes with no hesitation, accompanied by smiles and tears all around. It should guide you in every decision, thought and act until you stand before God, the people and the pastor on the big day. Remember that if you get nothing else out of this column.
Assuming this "cardinal rule of engagement," let's look at some God-honoring, useful ways to spend this unique time.
A feminine woman wants to look up to the guy she is with; not look down on him.
At the end of our conversation, I suggested to her that the only solution that I can think of to the problem of not having enough single men in her geographic area to choose from is .