Tips for dating chinese women
It’s much more powerful if she learns about it through the grapevine anyway. Be honest and upfront about what kind of relationship you’re looking for, and don’t pretend that you desire some kind of commitment if you’re only looking for a casual romance.
On the other hand, there is no need to be dishonest about your romantic activities, and in fact behaving like a sociopath will not win you any points with Chinese girls the way some people claim it does with Western girls. Generally-speaking, Chinese women (and Chinese people) are not as expressive with their emotions as Western people are. These could all be signs of a special fondness that she feels for you. This may be obvious, but when you’re dealing with a different culture, you might not realize certain critical local customs.
Like the women of most cultures, as much as they may deny it, Chinese women like to see a man who is desired by other women.
That feeling of the “unknown” can make cross-cultural love affairs particularly intense.
On the other hand, of course there is a dark side of sorts to this: With every moment of extreme passion and exploration, there can be moments of frustration.
The very things about her that seem like an exciting mystery at one moment can become an annoying enigma the next. It’s probably the same from her perspective, too; don’t forget that a woman encountering a man from a strange culture such as yourself is likely going through the same emotional ups and downs as you.
One thing that can minimize the downside when you’re first starting the seduction process, however, is a bit of education.